Uaʻikeʻoe i ke kanakaʻelemakule,ʻo kaʻoi aku o ka paʻakikī ke kiʻiʻana i kahi makana iā ia. ʻAʻole e hāʻawiʻia nā haʻawina hoʻoweliweli a me nā haʻawina i ka nui o nā mea. No ka mea he kumu, no ke aha i hāʻawiʻia ai he kupuna wahine kahiko i makana makana, makemakeʻo ia eʻike i kou hopohopo ma mua o ka mahalo i ka poli hoahoa. No laila, pehea e hāʻawi ai i kahi kupunawahine - heʻaʻahu'ē aʻe a iʻole e ho'āʻo paha i kahi mea e hoʻokīpī ai iā ia? E noʻonoʻo e pili ana ia mea.
He aha kaʻu e hāʻawi aku ai i koʻu kupunawahine?
ʻO ka pane i ka nīnau o nā mea hiki ke hāʻawiʻia i koʻu kupunawahine, e hoʻomaka mākou e nānā, e hoʻomanaʻo ana i kona mau makahiki. ʻO kaʻelemakule kahikoʻaʻole i nele i kahi mea kūikawā,ʻo ka makana maikaʻi,ʻo ia kāna huakaʻi, ua hauʻoliʻo ia no kou hoʻomanaʻoʻana iā ia. No laila, no ka ho'āʻo i kaʻoluʻolu,ʻaʻole pono. ʻO ka nui o ke kupuna wahine kahiko he makana ia e hōʻike iā ia i kāu mālama. E waiho i loko o kēia hihia he plaid me nā lima (e hoʻopili i loko o laila, hiki ke hoʻopaʻa i kekahi mea ma ko lākou mau lima), he pilikua pilikino no ke kua iʻole hoʻokahi matana me kahi pahu nui, me nā huahana, e hoʻohui i ka TV kelepona me kahi koho nui o nā kahawai, kahi noho hauʻoli.
He aha keʻano o ke kupunawahine e hiki iāʻoe ke hāʻawi i kahi makana, ināʻaʻoleʻoe i kapa ia heʻelemakule, he aha kāu e hāʻawi ai i kēia hihia? Maikaʻi, a laila e nānā wale aku i nā makana mahana ka waiwaiʻole, hiki iāʻoe ke hoʻomanaʻo no nā mea hoʻolimalima. ʻO Grandma, ke aloha nei i ka mīkini i loko o ka lumi kuke, hiki iāʻoe ke hōʻike aku i kahi puke kahuʻai me nā mea hou a me nāʻano hou no ka kukeʻana. Eia nō hoʻi, he mau manawaleʻa ko nā wahine hānai makahiki i kapaʻiaʻo dacha. Maaneiʻoe kahi e huli ai - hiki iāʻoe ke hāʻawi i nā mea kanu lāʻau, a me kahi moena kauwela, a me nā mea kanu o nā pua a me nā lāʻau hua, a makemake loaʻo ia e kanu ma kona pūnaewele. Inā he pili koʻolua kupunawahine e noho ana ma kekahi kūlanakauhale'ē aʻe, a hikiʻole iā ia ke kipa iā lākou ma kekahiʻano, e hāʻawi iā ia i ka manawa kūpono - e uku i nā mea a me nā mea liʻiliʻi i nāʻohana.
A eia maanei kekahi mau manaʻo makana no nā kupuna wahine he nui:
- he waiʻauʻau,ʻaʻole pono e'ākau;
- ka papa wela i loko o ka lumipaku;
- he kīʻafe a me ke kola me nā mea'alapona no ke kī;
- ikona;
- he kukui kukui a me kahiʻaila;
- kekahi kiʻi nui o ka hale ma kahi kiʻi nani;
- he lole moe maikaʻi;
- nā kēmu i ka hale kiʻiʻoniʻoni;
- ka palaoa i hanaʻia e kauoha;
- Tonometer (ke ana ke ana i ke kaumaha);
- nā kapa pale nani;
- kaomi wai;
- kona kiʻi;
- ka papalena me nā kiʻi o nā moʻopuna, nā keiki a me nā moʻopuna a ka moʻopuna;
- pua nani i loko o ka ipu.
He aha nā pua e hāʻawi i koʻu kupuna wahine?
Pehea e hana ai i kahi makana mai kahi moʻopuna mai keʻoluʻolu loa no kahi kupuna wahine? ʻO ke kumu, e hoʻonui iā ia me ka pua nani,ʻo ke kupunawahine kekahi wahine, aʻo ia hoʻi kekahi wahine e hāʻawiʻia i makana eʻoluʻolu iā ia. Akā, eia kāua e hālāwai me kekahi nīnau'ē aʻe, he aha nā pua e hāʻawi ai? He aha ka hewa e hūnā ai, ke hāʻawi pinepine nei mākou i nā kāpena i nā kupuna wahine, a no lailaʻaʻoleʻo ia eʻike mau i kona makemake ma kēiaʻano. Pehea e lanakila ai i kēia kūlana? E ho'āʻo eʻike i ka hola o ka hoʻohanohano, he aha nā pua e aloha ai kou kupuna wahine. Inā hikiʻole ke hana pēlā, pono ia e noʻonoʻo i nā'ōlelo hou i ka wā e haku ai i kahi'āpana.
- ʻO nā poʻeʻelemakule e like me nā'āpana momona, no lailaʻaʻole e kau i ka nui o nā mea nani a me ka hōʻailona nani. E hoʻomaopopo pono i ka lahilahi o nāʻaʻahu,ʻoiaiʻo nā'ōpena me nā kala he nuiʻaʻole hoʻokomo kēia kulekele.
- ʻOi aku ka maikaʻi o nā pua i ka bouquet. Ma muli o kaʻili keʻokeʻo e hōʻike ana i ka mahalo a me ka mahalo.
- I mea eʻoluʻolu ai kaʻahaʻaina i kou kupunawahine, e noʻonoʻoʻole i kahi maikaʻi o nā pua nani. No laila, 'aʻole makemake i nā "hoalauna" o nā roses, nā lehua, nāʻala a me nā līlia. ʻAʻole i launa pono nāʻaila a me nā mea kanu,ʻaʻole hiki iā lākou ke hui pū i nā popopies a me nā līlia.